Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Missing you...

"The important thing is to be able at any moment
to sacrifice what we are for what we could become."
-Charles Dubois

In my silence...
In my slumber...
In my dreams...
In my hopes...
In my prayers...
In my heart...
I have you.

Because of you, I have learned how beautiful LOVE can be...
May God keep you in the palm of His hands.
Missing you...


Thursday, June 25, 2009

Tired of self-expectations

We all have a tendency to hold on to things that destroy us and cause us to stay unhealthy. As a result, the heaviness of our burdens prevents us from enjoying life. We get caught up in negativity and depression. I have felt it before. The world becomes dark and big to the point that we perceive most things as black and white.
Letting go of our hurts and disappointments and learning to forgive ourselves and others are conscious acts. Forgiving ourselves is not a feeling. It is a choice. We must choose to forgive even if it means swallowing our own pride. Some people hold on to hurts and spend their whole lives being unhappy and miserable. Unfortunately, everyone who touches shoulders with such people senses and absorbs the negative reactions and unhappiness. Who wants to be around someone who is always unhappy, always negative, always complaining?!?
Most of the time...
The things we don't want to see
,are the things you have to see.

Truth is , all of us get something-some payoff- when we hold on to things that are unhealthy. Blind loyalty is plain foolishness. Do the math and get the average. You can never be loyal to something or someone which causes you pain. It's contrary to life, to survival. The unfortunate part is that while we hold on to these things, meanwhile, life keeps passing us buy, and we miss healthy moments - moments filled with fun and laughter, true joy. We get "stuck" in pain which suffocates and strangles us, and we find ourselves not opting for life. And worse, we normally hide it deep within, wearing masks of "pseudo-happiness", certainty and strength.

I need to remember that human beings trip and fall, sometimes say things they don't mean, and make mistakes. Those are not failures. They are ruts and grooves that we all need to grow into awareness of. Human beings are not perfect. And that's all i am, all we are - a human being. So why do I expect more of myself than of others? It's just crazy, don't you think? Chilax! Smile. =)

Monday, June 22, 2009

Take your time

Before you form a relationship,
ask yourself if there are things about the other you can't stand.
If there are, ask yourself if
you would be able to live with these things forever.
If the answer is "no", then leave it alone.
Though it's true to expect the reasonable and not the perfect,
remember that your own principles and values do not restrict,
They protect you. Never fall in love with love, most of the time
one will eventually drown from it's own complexities.
Believe me...
Don't think in terms of forever.
Think of NOW, and forever will take care of itself.
Take your time... :)

Thursday, June 18, 2009

Get Moving Dylan!

For the next 24hrs, haharap ako para kay Dylan.
Kaya ganyan ang po header ko.
It goes to show I want your attention.
You asked for it, So here it is...
This is for you! :)

We haven't met before.
I don't know who you are.
I don't know the details of your circumstances,
I don't even know your real name,
All i have are mere glimpses of your thoughts and feelings,
probably masking certain things very dear to your heart.
But they do tell a lot, actually they tell everything.
I think you're a very special person.
And i really mean that, but let me tell you this...
Some people wait for others to make them happy.
Some let others set the mood and attitude of their everyday lives.
Some let others determine the whens, hows, whys,
and ifs of their lives.
But the truth is, waiting for others to decide to do things with us
risks our never doing anything at all.
Being "Dimaubusan" is a gift, but rigidity often
hampers the spontaneity of our lives.
It is not necessary to plan every second of our lives.
And even if we do, we must be willing to be surprised
at those plans and how they often take on new shape.
I know you have a good and blessed heart Dylan.
I can pretty much read how your clever mind works.

All I wish for you is to be happy...
To have that true joy you deserve...

So what's my point?

Drink something else aside from coffee!
God is on your side!
Get Movin!

Happy Birthday Dylan!
You spin my head right round...
Follow my lead...
Dance with me!
It's time to PARTY!


Wednesday, June 17, 2009

Acceptance and Respect

"Where there is no vision, the people perish"
- Proverbs 29:18

Be it in Friendship or Love...
Vision implies spontaneity, surprise, creativity and wonder.
It opens our minds to acceptance and respect.
Acceptance recognizes and honors our differences.
Respect refuses to make assumptions about others;
it listens and learns from each person.
Both self-worth and dignity flourish when we give acceptance and respect.

Happy 1,2,3,4 Monthsary Mark and Riza!
Time flies really fast...
Keep acceptance and respect alive...
Wishing you all the Best!
God Bless!


Friday, June 12, 2009

Araw ng Kalayaan


1987 Konstitusyon


Kami, ang nakapangyayaring sambayanang Pilipino,
na humihingi ng tulong sa Makapangyarihang Diyos,
upang bumuo ng isang makatarungan at makataong lipunan
at magtatag ng isang Pamahalaan
nakakatawan sa aming mga mithiin at mga lunggatiin,

magtataguyod ng kabutihan sa bawat isa,
mangangalaga at magpapaunlad ng aming kamanahan,
at titiyak para saming sarili at angkanang susunod
ng mga biyaya ng kalayaan at demokrasya
sa ilalim ng pananaig ng batas
at ng pamamahalang puspos ng


at kapayapaan,

ay naglalagda at naghahayag ng Konstitusyong ito.

May saysay pa nga ba?
Kalayaan nasaan ka nga ba?

Thursday, June 11, 2009

Time To Realize

Why are we so afraid of loving and trusting?
We build walls around our hearts and protect ourselves
from the very passion we are yearning for.
We choose to die instead of living with the strength
that the power of physical touch gives us...

I guess it's true...
Never love because your lonely...

Monday, June 8, 2009

Written by Us

"The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved...
for ourselves, or rather, in spite of ourselves." - Victor Hugo

This is our journey

We need not judge ourselves along the way
We are walking towards the same end
I want you to feel free to grow and change
and follow your life's path,

knowing that I love you for who you are and what you are.
Each step will define the story.
Each word of the story is written by US.
I miss you...